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I was skeptical at first when a colleague recommended this book. After all, there are so many approaches out there. What could be so transformative about this one? But I must say that this book has completely revolutionized how I think about doing couples therapy, as well as about my own relationships. Communication skills or digging through childhood wounds, while often relevant, just never seemed to quite be enough to help couples. This book teaches you to understand that most arguments, no matter their content, are really protests about disconnection. I highly recommend this perspective to everyone. It might just save your relationship.