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Too much whining
I tried to like this book, I really did. I cannot stand how the author likens her situation to those suffering trauma. 1) your mother did not have an affair and not tell the person she was pregnant, 2) your mother didn't get pregnant by another man and make believe it was your fathers 3) you were not abandoned or adopted 4) two adults made a conscious decision to have fertility treatments and then raised you as their child (which you were) and loved you. 5) Why would you be mad at a total stranger for not wanting to meet you and let you invade his life. 6) you should be happy that this person was generous enough to donate his sperm so your parents could have a family, so you could have life and in turn, your son. It's shocking, yes...but the idea that after 54 years you were afraid your family would abandon you or your friends would treat you differently is absurd.
January 2019 · Books